What to Do When Your Partner Feels Like a Roommate?


Has your soulmate turned into your roommate? You may not have separate shelves in the refrigerator, but you’re not as close as you used to be.

When the honeymoon stage ends, it’s easy for couples to drift apart. You’re so busy with daily responsibilities that you may start taking each other for granted.

To keep your relationship healthy and strong, it’s important to invest some time and effort on a regular basis. Try these tips for reconnecting with your partner. 


Working Together as a Team

Some of the things you do at work to be a helpful teammate apply to your home life too. Be willing to compromise to keep each other happy. Contribute your unique strengths so you can succeed together.

Try these strategies:

  1. Set goals. Your relationship thrives when you evolve together. Talk about your values and dreams. Shared goals give you a sense of purpose and direction in life. When your vision is clear, you can make concrete plans for how to spend your time and energy.
  2. Resolve conflicts. You’re still bound to disagree sometimes. Listen to each other with an open mind and search for solutions that satisfy both your needs. Working out your differences can bring you closer together.
  3. Express gratitude. Let your partner know how much you appreciate them. Praise them when they do something kind and tell them how they make your life more joyful.
  4. Build financial security. Managing money is a common source of friction for many couples. Be honest with each other about your habits and expectations.
  5. Plan ahead. Unexpected things happen in life. However, there are many transitions you can anticipate, so you have more time to adjust. Be prepared for parenthood and retirement.
  6. Make major decisions together. The choices you make affect your partner too. Being able to reach an agreement on important matters demonstrates your trust and respect.

Living Together as a Couple

With a roommate, you’re probably satisfied if they pay their share of the bills. With a partner, you expect much more.

Learn to inspire and support each other with these tips:

  1. Prioritize your relationship. Keep your connection with your partner at the front of your mind and the top of your to do list. Let go of little things and focus on what you love about them.
  2. Schedule date nights. Enjoy some time with one another free from daily stress. Take turns planning fun activities. Opt for dinner and a movie or more unusual ideas. It’s also okay to stay home if you need some quiet time together.
  3. Enliven your conversations. When was the last time you talked about something other than home repairs and your kids? Find out what your partner thinks about news stories and cultural trends. Ask each other about what you want out of life.
  4. Pursue your passions. Do things together. Find hobbies you both enjoy, like playing tennis or building robots. Sign up for classes on gourmet cooking or Russian literature.
  5. Take vacations. Take advantage of the opportunity to get away from daily routines and responsibilities. You may see your partner in a new light and return home feeling refreshed.
  6. Remain independent. You have to take care of yourself as an individual if you want to be a happy couple. Hang onto your own friends and interests.
  7. Consider counseling. If you need more help, seeing a professional therapist could enable you to change old habits. You can go on your own or with your partner.

Revitalizing a long-term relationship is challenging, but the rewards are worth it. You’ll have a companion who’s on your side and a partner to share your load.

This concludes our training for today. In the battle for a better life? We invite you to advance your personal development and financial literacy education by subscribing to Battle Call Academy. Get access to resources that will help you elevate your financial IQ, enhance internal / external communication skills, and create a prosperous outlook.

Until next time: God bless, stay positive, and be true to you.

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