Allow or Surrender

In life, there are various decisions you have to make. Sometimes, you failed to get what you really want because of various circumstances. Say for instance, if your love one lost their battle with cancer, you have to allow it to happen because it’s God’s choice. Whether you like it or not, you can’t do anything to bring them back. So, what you need to do is to accept the reality and move on with your life.

How Allowing and Surrender Works

Allowing life to happen and accepting the destiny of things are quite too hard to do. To allow things in life, you have to set goals. These goals can change you. Depending on your goals, you can accomplish more, discover yourself, get what you need and want and a lot more. It is true that goals give purposes and directions in life.

If things don’t go as you have planned, you need to accept it and continue what you are doing. In setting goals, you need to act, always need to be patient and trust in God’s timing. There are some goals that take a few years before you achieve it. Whether you let go, surrender or give up, make sure that you keep the objective on your lists.


What will happen if you surrender? If you give up or surrender, you will learn various things. It’s not the end of the world if you decided to surrender. Surrendering, may open up doors other opportunities that are more suitable for you. It’s O K to surrender on things that is making your life miserable.

Say for instance, if you surrender chasing your ideal mate, you have a chance to meet and entertain other people. Instead of loving someone who loves another, try to find someone who can love you in return. With your experiences, you will truly value your relationship and learn how to handle your future partner.

Surrendering works when people are tired of their routine. If you are experiencing a reduntant routine, you have to change and adjust your daily activity and preference. If you are not happy with your life, you have to give up something to make things as perfect as you want.

Signs that You Need to Surrender

Like other people, you also wanted to know when to allow and surrender. If you are confused on when to surrender, here are the different signs you shouldn’t miss to forget:

Always Stress – If you are always stressed, that is an indicator that you have to give up. Whether you are young or old, you should always find enough time to enjoy and not to worry on various things.

Various People are Affected – There is nothing wrong to surrender, especially when you see that there are various people who are affected with the situation. If you want peaceful life, learn how to sacrifice and choose the best that you really want.

Time Isn’t On Your Side – If the time has become unmanageable, you have to surrender. If you did, you have a chance to restructure and reorganize your life.

Other signs that you need to surrender if you feel that everything is falling apart and you can’t do anything, but to accept it. You also need to give up most of your loved ones and trusted friends push you to stop.

“God, give me grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, Courage to change the things which should be changed, and the Wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.”

This concludes our training for today. We invite you to advance your personal development and financial literacy education by subscribing to Holy City’s Battlefield Academy. Get access to resources that will help you elevate your financial IQ, enhance internal / external communication skills, and create a prosperous outlook.

Until next time: God bless, stay positive, and be true to you.

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